Person-centred. In your corner. Together—navigating the ever-changing landscape of life.
I take a developmental coaching approach to my coaching practice. At its core, developmental coaching focuses on life transitions and lifespan development. It’s been said that developmental coaching, at its essence, is akin to a compass for individuals navigating the ever-changing landscape of life.
My approach can also be described as a person-centred approach. It is in some ways at the very heart of coaching.
The following quote from Jonathan Passmore resonates with me:
“The essential tool for the coach, is thus the quality of the relationship, ensuring clients experience the warmth and empathy offered by the coach. The focus is on the relationship, and how the coach uses listening, and displays empathy toward their client.”
Passmore, 2020
Establishing trust and safety in a coaching relationship is paramount to me. The ability to demonstrate presence is foundational to my coaching approach. I believe that one’s ability to demonstrate presence is an essential quality to advance personal and professional potential. Clients and peers have oftentimes mentioned that I bring a peaceful presence to a coaching session.
Establishing trust and safety in a coaching relationship is paramount to me. The ability to demonstrate presence is foundational to my coaching approach. I believe that one’s ability to demonstrate presence is an essential quality to advance personal and professional potential. Clients and peers have oftentimes mentioned that I bring a peaceful presence to a coaching session.
I believe that the cornerstone of my coaching approach is connected with my passion for learning, reflection, and self-development. I believe that reflective practice is central to learning—for both the client and the coach. I do believe that writing is an important process that activates our learning. Where appropriate, I will design different reflective practice tools in my coaching practice to support my clients in between coaching sessions. I may customize a reflective tool (form, survey, or questionnaire) to meet the needs of the client.
I support my clients to make practical connections between their well-being and well-doing. Where appropriate, self-generative practices and activities are included, such as self-observation, building somatic awareness, and developing compassion for self and others.
Frameworks that support social emotional skill development will be incorporated in sessions, as appropriate. Research has shown that there is a relationship between a leader’s success and his/her EI.
Developing empathy and emotional intelligence (EI) supports the development of inspirational leaders, improves relationship management, and teamwork. However, this work takes courage.
The emotional intelligence (AKA emotional quotient) of senior leaders is a success determinant.
Of all the people we’ve studied at work, we’ve found that 90% of top performers are also high in emotional intelligence. On the flip side, just 20% of bottom performers are high in emotional intelligence.
I continue research and collect additional resources, models and/or frameworks that can serve to support clients. At times, it may be appropriate to share an article, framework, or model in between sessions.
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